It can be tough to let go a situation, but acknowledging the "next" is essential for personal growth . Giving yourself permission to process the grief is key, but don't dwell in the former times . https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N4FBtGP7zSs&list=OLAK5uy_kaqfjK_D00GAl1qeI8R1YmIE36j-RCLho&index=1